Post by Icee on Jan 25, 2005 14:56:45 GMT -5
Okay, condisering theres a percentage of girls on the board, I need your help.
Well the other night (about a week ago actually) my fantastic boyfriend, Mick, asked me to go around to his house.
Yes, thats right you know what boy I'm talking about.
And Sarah might be a naughty girl, but she wasn't that naughty as he slept on the floor.
Yep, that ^ was a long time ago and now we've been dating for roughly 3 months.
And, yes well the other night, he asked me to come round, with which I gladly accepted. So, off I went, a on e hour walk across my City at 11 at night to see him.
Anyroad, when I get there, him and Philip (the biggest Paul fan known to man) are sitting around drinking, and it appears Mick has had a little too much, and he's all drunky.
So we were sitting around and hes like 'I'm going to vomit'. So he goes around the back of the house, not once, not twice, but thrice he vomits.
So he is a good boy, and decides to go to bed. So me and Philip are just sitting around talking, and we start getting into deep conversation about his life, see he is really messed up, because he dated this girl for 2 years and then they split up, and then he went through a huge depression stage, and he was put in a mental hospital for about 6 months, and he started telling me about how he thinks he doesn't belong in this world and that its not for him.
And then he looks at me and says 'You're really cool, You interest me, you're very mysterious'.
[Let me give you the low down on this Phil guy, met him at the beggining of 04, got drunk and made out with him because...well because he liked the Beatles XD anyways, we kept talking over the phone, and he asked me to come see his band which was where I met Mick]
Yup, and then he started going 'Sarah....' And I'm like 'Yeah?' and he kept saying 'No, nothing nevermind.' and then he comes out and says 'I want to snog you.' And I'm just stunned and I go 'Well..ah..' and then he started saying 'No, no it's fucking wrong, I'm sorry I know you're happy with Micheal and I shouldn't have said anything.' And then Im like it's okay, and then he started going 'No no, You're going to tell Micheal and it's going to break up the band.'
I didn't think I would tell Mick.
But, I thought he needed to know. So, when I was around there the other day, I got a beer out of the back fridge, put it on the bench, went into the lounge room, told him to pause the play station, walked to his room, picked up the beer on the way, gave that to him, and then when we got into his room I said 'We need to talk, I should have told you this before.' You should have seen the look on his face XD, you know when your girl says that it aint good. And then I told him Philip tried to kiss me. And I swear, I've never seen anyone open a beer with such force.
Then he went back to playing the game and I left, and he hasn't talked to me since, and this was like 3 days ago. I don't know if he's mad at me, and frankly if he breaks up with me, I will throw myself off a building because I love him very very much.
So do you think I should call him tomorrow? Or wait for him to talk to me?
Sorry people, I just need advice on the issue, and since we need one, this thread can be for everyones problems, if you got a problem, post it.
Well the other night (about a week ago actually) my fantastic boyfriend, Mick, asked me to go around to his house.
Yes, thats right you know what boy I'm talking about.
Icee said:
Ahh nah, this ones the real thing. He's so cute, and we have the same interests. Definately.And Sarah might be a naughty girl, but she wasn't that naughty as he slept on the floor.
Yep, that ^ was a long time ago and now we've been dating for roughly 3 months.
And, yes well the other night, he asked me to come round, with which I gladly accepted. So, off I went, a on e hour walk across my City at 11 at night to see him.
Anyroad, when I get there, him and Philip (the biggest Paul fan known to man) are sitting around drinking, and it appears Mick has had a little too much, and he's all drunky.
So we were sitting around and hes like 'I'm going to vomit'. So he goes around the back of the house, not once, not twice, but thrice he vomits.
So he is a good boy, and decides to go to bed. So me and Philip are just sitting around talking, and we start getting into deep conversation about his life, see he is really messed up, because he dated this girl for 2 years and then they split up, and then he went through a huge depression stage, and he was put in a mental hospital for about 6 months, and he started telling me about how he thinks he doesn't belong in this world and that its not for him.
And then he looks at me and says 'You're really cool, You interest me, you're very mysterious'.
[Let me give you the low down on this Phil guy, met him at the beggining of 04, got drunk and made out with him because...well because he liked the Beatles XD anyways, we kept talking over the phone, and he asked me to come see his band which was where I met Mick]
Yup, and then he started going 'Sarah....' And I'm like 'Yeah?' and he kept saying 'No, nothing nevermind.' and then he comes out and says 'I want to snog you.' And I'm just stunned and I go 'Well..ah..' and then he started saying 'No, no it's fucking wrong, I'm sorry I know you're happy with Micheal and I shouldn't have said anything.' And then Im like it's okay, and then he started going 'No no, You're going to tell Micheal and it's going to break up the band.'
I didn't think I would tell Mick.
But, I thought he needed to know. So, when I was around there the other day, I got a beer out of the back fridge, put it on the bench, went into the lounge room, told him to pause the play station, walked to his room, picked up the beer on the way, gave that to him, and then when we got into his room I said 'We need to talk, I should have told you this before.' You should have seen the look on his face XD, you know when your girl says that it aint good. And then I told him Philip tried to kiss me. And I swear, I've never seen anyone open a beer with such force.
Then he went back to playing the game and I left, and he hasn't talked to me since, and this was like 3 days ago. I don't know if he's mad at me, and frankly if he breaks up with me, I will throw myself off a building because I love him very very much.
So do you think I should call him tomorrow? Or wait for him to talk to me?
Sorry people, I just need advice on the issue, and since we need one, this thread can be for everyones problems, if you got a problem, post it.
That's a very complicated situation. But yeah, I'd call him if I were you. Just make sure he's not angry at you and make sure he knows nothing happened... I think that's the best thing you can do. Unfortunately, I have little (read: NO) experience with boys, so I don't have much advice to offer beyond that.
Here comes the story, I will make it fast.
